by Jessie Brewin To build a harmonious relationship, it is very important to take responsibility for your actions, fully understand who you are and what you want.
These 8 signs will help determine whether you are 100% ready for a relationship and whether you are capable of building honesty and trust-based relationship.
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You know your worth
Self-confidence is very important if you want to build a harmonious and strong relationship with a partner. Forget about finding someone who will show you your true value and help you reveal yourself. Rely on your own free will and character and make serious decisions yourself. These qualities attract people who are looking for a long and serious relationship.
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You stopped putting all the guys under a microscope
Some girls and women are obsessed with the idea of finding a partner. So they look for him at every party, walk, shopping, restaurant and other places and events of their lives.
However, psychologists say that you are ready for a serious relationship only when you stop considering each man as a candidate for a future relationship. Be relaxed and radiate self-confidence to attract people. Only then you will find your soulmate.
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Parties are no longer the essence of your life
Are you ready to leave behind noisy clubs and vibrant parties? Then it is time to review life values and go in search of a serious man with whom you can build a long-term serious relationship.
This does not mean that you need to abandon entertainment and communication with friends completely. You need to feel that this is not primary anymore. Now you need a person for a quieter and more interesting pastime.
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You need unconditional love
You’ve probably heard about relationships such as friendship with benefits and open relationships. To build a serious relationship with a solid foundation and long-term prospects, it is vital to take unconditional love for granted. Only such relationships can be long-run. Those who seek other relationships or make concessions in order to keep their partner for a while are not yet ready for a serious relationship.
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You are responsible for your decisions
Regardless of whether you are considering past relationships or planning future ones, it is very important to evaluate your willingness to be responsible for decisions made. If your answer to all the problems is “I have nothing to do with this,” then this indicates that you are not ready for obligations, and you often make yourself a victim of the consequences of such decisions. Analyze your mistakes in the past and show everyone that you are ready for serious undertakings.
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Relationships are the result of your desires, not the need
The best sign that you are ready for a serious relationship is your desire to start such a relationship. However, you do not feel that this is a vital necessity. Often people think that another person will save them from loneliness and sadness. However, it is very important to believe in one’s own strengths and build the very foundations of relationships with a sense of happiness, emotions and positive energy. Do not shift the responsibility for the relationship only to the partner; take an active part in its building.
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You are not looking for a relationship because everyone else is dating someone
If you are guided by a herd feeling, and you think that you need to date someone because your friends are in a relationship, then you are definitely not ready for a new relationship. Come up with other activities to distract yourself.
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You are not trying to cope with loneliness or boredom.
In no case should boredom or a feeling of loneliness be a motivation to build a new relationship. If you’re bored, take a trip or hike or find a new hobby. If you are lonely, meet with friends, or invite mom for a week.
