The Swipe School

How to Swipe Mindfully and Find Your Perfect Match

Boys blush too! And it is SO pleasant to make them do so. Girls, let’s take a little revenge on boys and make their cheeks rosy-red. 

The little problem lies in the fact that we don’t know how to do that. Or! For many of us, it’s easy to flirt and tease a guy if you aren’t interested in him as a partner. But once you want to make a boy you find attractive blush, here comes your hesitation and uncertainty.

So, you don’t know how to behave and what to say. That’s ok, girl. We will deal with it today. You will learn how to make someone blush like a schoolgirl! Examples included.

Making somebody you are not so close with (yet) blush

Complementing

I met many men who said that they receive few compliments from women even if they look/act amazing. Why? Why don’t we praise guys for looking good, for cool sunglasses, for well-trimmed beards, for being manly?

Meanwhile, a compliment is the easiest way to attract somebody’s attention, show your interest, and get them in the mood.

Of course, “Nice jacket!” won’t make him blush. Be bold and a little bit extra.

There is another thing to remember: men love compliments about their masculinity more than about appearance (unlike girls). If you want to emphasize his look, again, it should be somehow connected to his manhood.

Examples: 

  1. Wow, just wow, it appears you’ve got such sexy legs, boy! I’m glad it’s summer, and you’ve shown them, ha-ha
  2. Mike, I just can’t stop staring at your biceps. They are making me sin!
  3. You dealt with this problem so easily! I’ve never met a strong and decisive man like you. I’m impressed. 
  4. You work so hard. I’m ready to watch you working all day long!
  5. Oh my god, the way you [chop wood] makes you look like a Viking. So attractive.

Eye contact

Oh, eyes are our main flirting tool. And it can make any man blush. You just need to learn how.

Make and hold eye contact with the guy for a couple of seconds. If he doesn’t look away, continue. Try to make your gaze soft and sexy. Open your mouth a little bit and take a deep breath. Your chest should rise a little. This way, you will show him that thoughts about him make you excited and a little nervous. You can add the slightest smile to it. Oh, can you feel that tension? I already can.

There is something very intimate in long direct eye contact. Girls, you will see your guys blushing.

Bold pick-up lines

If you’ve just picked him out and don’t even know his name, this trick is for you.

Using pick-up lines usually leads to puzzled faces. But if you do that with style and humor, this will work.

Examples:

  1. Should I report to Spotify for missing out on the hottest single? Hello, I’m Jane, a music lover. 
  2. Hello! Can we hide somewhere? I don’t want other girls to notice you here.
  3. I’m not even drunk yet, and you’ve already seemed attractive to me. I think that’s a sign!
  4. You know, you have been gracing the place all night, and I just had to come and say hello
  5. So, what does it feel like to be the most eligible bachelor in the room?

Making your boyfriend blush

You can use all the tricks described above plus all the following ones.

Touching him in public

Touches work always. Put your hand on his inside leg and stroke it when you dine with friends. You can touch his neck or chest with your fingers.

You can hold him close and whisper something intimate. By the way, we will talk about whispering, so read on.

 

Even if you aren’t a fan of PDA, these slight little actions won’t bother people around you. They aren’t supposed to see or feel the rising tension between you.

Your hands on him – believe your man will be flustered. The only thing he would be able to think about is you and what he is going to do with you when you get home.

Sending him sexy messages

Saucy messages, nudes, and sexting are a must to make him blush. What can be more provocative?

You can make your man blush even when you are not around. But make sure you trust this man completely.

Examples:

  1. I prepared something for you this evening + a photo in sexy lingerie.
  2. Enjoyed stretching and thinking about what we did last night + a photo of you stretching your legs.
  3. Building my bootie and want you to slap it + a belfie (butt selfie) from a gym.
  4. I have nothing on me besides your hoodie. Your smell is on my skin. So intoxicating. 
  5. It’s insane, just seeing your name on my phone screen gets me horny. So should I even bother to get dressed before you come over or just stay naked?

Whispering

It’s one of the most intimate actions I know. Your lips are so close to his ears and neck that he can’t help but feel the sexual impulses coming from you. Wherever you two are, his heartbeat will double.

Of course, the words should be turned on, not “Hey, can you bring me a glass of water?”

There should be a bit of dirty talk.

Examples:

  1. You have no idea how sexy you are right now. May I remind you tonight?
  2. Honey, you should stay over so that I can wake you up with my lips. 
  3. It turns me on when you look at me like that.
  4. Even a light touch of your hand makes me ecstatic. I want this feeling to last forever.
  5. You are so close that I forget how to breathe and I feel so dizzy because of your breath on my skin.

Conclusion

Do guys blush? Oh yeah, they do. And it’s easy for a girl to make her man blush.

We at Flisk hope our guide will help you make your man a little shy and pleased. Please, share your own secret tips in the comments. We would love to see them!

Your Flisk ❤️

P.S. Thank you, Liz, for helping me with the examples. Men must be crazy about you!

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